Anyone use Facebook? It's constantly in the news but I can't for the life of me figure out what that damn Facebook is all about and why people are apparently getting addicted to it. I've looked in at the site a few times and have read user guides about it but am still none the wiser. No doubt the best way to find out is to actually use it but so far I have not the slightest inclination to do so - nor do I know anyone I like well enough to want to keep in regular touch with them - which may explain why it's all going over my head. From what I gather, you create a little cluster of friends around you (egocentrically enough), and those friends all have access to each other through your page (why on earth would you want that??).
Can anyone explain exactly how it works and what's so good about it?
Ganymed- 05-05-2009
My son uses it to keep up with his friends from school and work. I signed up just now to see how it works and the pictures, of those that posted them are too small to really get any idea what they look like. Maybe I'm missing something there. I'll have to ask him about that. It's a good way to keep in touch with friends if that's your bag.
fed- 05-05-2009
But isn't it the case that whatever you write, everybody in your cluster gets to see? That's what I don't get... that sort of group communication seems senseless to me... surely you want to be saying different things to different people. And if you want to write to someone one-to-one, well, there's email or messaging for that...
Clearly I'm missing the point somehow...
Ganymed- 05-05-2009
Well you can send messages to anyone who is a member. As far as I know, no one else can read it. But being a member will give you access to all of another members friends and any other information you have posted about yourself. Secrecy is not the object. Why don't you sign up and look up some old school friends. It's easier than most such forums.
it's just another way to communicate. Here is an image of a cool bike and you can send it to friends by a number of ways. You can see the facebook button in the upper left.
I'll try my best to explain it, but I'll doubt my conveyance will do you any good.
Basically, you make an account, and the first thing you do is search for your "friends". Most people don't just add their friends; they just add literally every single person that they can find on their that they've somehow met through their worldly encounters. I think there's a way in which you can automatically add everyone from your email account.
Now, assuming you've not done most of these "friends" any disfavours, they'll all accept your invitation. Because adding them doesn't mean they're automatically on your friends list, they just receive a request from you, asking them to be your Facebook friend. So the acceptance means they're your friend.
From that moment on, you can see everything that's going on with them. I mean, you can access their page, their photos, their videos, et cetera. People comment on each other's "wall". The wall is the person's page. By clicking on one of your friends, you're taken immediately to the wall, which illustrates what your friend has been up to. Walls are generally just covered in comments by other people (usually whom you don't know), talking about social events, what's been going on in their lives, et cetera. But it also tells you if they've commented on any photos, whether they've updated their "personal information", and random stuff like that.
That's not to say it's exposing everything. There is an "inbox", like on forums, in which you can privately message people, et cetera. But if you're not wanting to converse publicly, then it's not really worth having. PMs on Facebook should only really be about personal matters which you'd rather keep between yourself and your closest friends, or whatever.
When Ganymed claims that the pictures are too small to recognize the individual, that is most likely because the images he's trying to access are of people that he's not "friends" with, at least not according to Facebook.
I'm not sure what else to say...
I mean, if you're under the age of, say 25, then I'd say it's an essential thing to have, because when you're young you're naturally very sociable, or at least most youths are in this day and age. If you're older than that, its relevance will vary, depending not only on your actual social life, but whether those that you socialise with in person have any attachment to the internet. If that makes any sense at all, haha...
Yeah, that's just about all I can say for now. If any of you have got an account and you're wanting to have a closer look at what it offers, feel free add me on there, and I'll accept your invitation so you can have a closer look at the kind of things that it offers. In which case you'll need my name, which is "Alexander Beuttell". :roll:
Ironic- 05-08-2009
there are privacy settings on it so you can change what others can and cant see about you and your activity.
it can be very annoying though with superwall, funwall and application invitations bobarding you every time you log on.
vigcyn- 05-08-2009
I'll try my best to explain it, but I'll doubt my conveyance will do you any good.
Basically, you make an account, and the first thing you do is search for your "friends". Most people don't just add their friends; they just add literally every single person that they can find on their that they've somehow met through their worldly encounters. I think there's a way in which you can automatically add everyone from your email account.
Now, assuming you've not done most of these "friends" any disfavours, they'll all accept your invitation. Because adding them doesn't mean they're automatically on your friends list, they just receive a request from you, asking them to be your Facebook friend. So the acceptance means they're your friend.
From that moment on, you can see everything that's going on with them. I mean, you can access their page, their photos, their videos, et cetera. People comment on each other's "wall". The wall is the person's page. By clicking on one of your friends, you're taken immediately to the wall, which illustrates what your friend has been up to. Walls are generally just covered in comments by other people (usually whom you don't know), talking about social events, what's been going on in their lives, et cetera. But it also tells you if they've commented on any photos, whether they've updated their "personal information", and random stuff like that.
That's not to say it's exposing everything. There is an "inbox", like on forums, in which you can privately message people, et cetera. But if you're not wanting to converse publicly, then it's not really worth having. PMs on Facebook should only really be about personal matters which you'd rather keep between yourself and your closest friends, or whatever.
When Ganymed claims that the pictures are too small to recognize the individual, that is most likely because the images he's trying to access are of people that he's not "friends" with, at least not according to Facebook.
I'm not sure what else to say...
I mean, if you're under the age of, say 25, then I'd say it's an essential thing to have, because when you're young you're naturally very sociable, or at least most youths are in this day and age. If you're older than that, its relevance will vary, depending not only on your actual social life, but whether those that you socialise with in person have any attachment to the internet. If that makes any sense at all, haha...
Yeah, that's just about all I can say for now. If any of you have got an account and you're wanting to have a closer look at what it offers, feel free add me on there, and I'll accept your invitation so you can have a closer look at the kind of things that it offers. In which case you'll need my name, which is "Alexander Beuttell". :roll:
Koala Hair gave a good explanation. I was on Facebook for a while, but I really think it would appeal most to people under 25 or people who are very sociable. I unsubscribed because I got a Nigerian scam letter and assumed they got my email address from Facebook. I also know one woman who's on Facebook just so she can spy on her son (see who his friends are, etc.)
Sometimes when I'm bored at work I recall people I haven't seen for decades, google them and a few of them are on Facebook. When you reach my age, it becomes somewhat unsettling to see them again. One former friend of mine (from 30 years ago) is now garishly obese and divorced from her husband (who's now bald). It was a wierd trip down memory Lane, let me tell you, filling in all the blanks, etc.
fed- 05-08-2009
if you're not wanting to converse publicly, then it's not really worth having.
I think that's where it's losing me. I would be inclined to treat all my 'friends' quite individually. Saying something that would be read by all of them would never occur to me. Even if I was showing off some pictures from a trip, I would want to show different people different pictures.
I know on a board like this you are saying things viewed by everybody - but it's different... here, everyone is equally anonymous - no one is a 'real' friend, meaning someone you know in the flesh...
And isn't it the case that your list of 'friends' can all see each other? So they could see that I was included as somebody's friend? That to me is already an invasion of privacy. I've been invited as a friend a few times and have always ignored it because I don't want anything about me to be viewed indiscriminately by people who I may not want anything to do with :)
Seems like Facebook is just not for me.
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